Sunday, May 25, 2008

Graduation!

Well there aren't any really great photos. . . most of the people in our family who are normally taking pictures were somehow involved in the ceremony or reception and didn't have the time. There are a few though. . . thank you so much to everyone who was able to come celebrate with us! I felt it went really well - not too short, and not too long. Mr. Hickle was the speaker, and he did an excellent job. The reception was neat. We all had table set up with photos and things we've done throughout highschool. And then afterwards, just about all our friends were able to come over to our house and party. :)
This is me and two of the other graduates, making desserts for the reception. Yum!



Here are all the graduates - Elizabeth, Me, Andy, Julie, and Bethany


Mum, Me, Andy, and Dad



The whole family




While reading my biography . . .

While reading Andy's biography. . .

This was what was in my "diploma" when I opened it. Zephan had typed up an "application for a diploma", gotten both my parents to sign it, and printed the "rejected" stamp on it. I almost fell out of my seat laughing, which would have been very un-graduate-like. ;)


Graduation Cake

Party afterwards - the adults taking a turn at Volleyball

Playing the "bottle game"

And the teenagers playing volleyball

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

What personality type are you?

I thought this was interesting. . .

Portrait of an ISTJ - Introverted Sensing Thinking Judging
The Duty Fulfiller

ISTJs are quiet and reserved individuals who are interested in security and peaceful living. They have a strongly-felt internal sense of duty, which lends them a serious air and the motivation to follow through on tasks. Organized and methodical in their approach, they can generally succeed at any task which they undertake.

ISTJs are very loyal, faithful, and dependable. They place great importance on honesty and integrity. They are "good citizens" who can be depended on to do the right thing for their families and communities. While they generally take things very seriously, they also usually have an offbeat sense of humor and can be a lot of fun - especially at family or work-related gatherings.

ISTJs tend to believe in laws and traditions, and expect the same from others. They're not comfortable with breaking laws or going against the rules. If they are able to see a good reason for stepping outside of the established mode of doing things, the ISTJ will support that effort. However, ISTJs more often tend to believe that things should be done according to procedures and plans. If an ISTJ has not developed their Intuitive side sufficiently, they may become overly obsessed with structure, and insist on doing everything "by the book".

The ISTJ is extremely dependable on following through with things which he or she has promised. For this reason, they sometimes get more and more work piled on them. Because the ISTJ has such a strong sense of duty, they may have a difficult time saying "no" when they are given more work than they can reasonably handle. For this reason, the ISTJ often works long hours, and may be unwittingly taken advantage of.

The ISTJ will work for long periods of time and put tremendous amounts of energy into doing any task which they see as important to fulfilling a goal. However, they will resist putting energy into things which don't make sense to them, or for which they can't see a practical application. They prefer to work alone, but work well in teams when the situation demands it. They like to be accountable for their actions, and enjoy being in positions of authority.

The ISTJ has little use for theory or abstract thinking, unless the practical application is clear.ISTJs have tremendous respect for facts. They hold a tremendous store of facts within themselves, which they have gathered through their Sensing preference. They may have difficulty understanding a theory or idea which is different from their own perspective. However, if they are shown the importance or relevance of the idea to someone who they respect or care about, the idea becomes a fact, which the ISTJ will internalize and support. Once the ISTJ supports a cause or idea, he or she will stop at no lengths to ensure that they are doing their duty of giving support where support is needed.

The ISTJ is not naturally in tune with their own feelings and the feelings of others. They may have difficulty picking up on emotional needs immediately, as they are presented. Being perfectionists themselves, they have a tendency to take other people's efforts for granted, like they take their own efforts for granted. They need to remember to pat people on the back once in a while.

ISTJs are likely to be uncomfortable expressing affection and emotion to others. However, their strong sense of duty and the ability to see what needs to be done in any situation usually allows them to overcome their natural reservations, and they are usually quite supporting and caring individuals with the people that they love. Once the ISTJ realizes the emotional needs of those who are close to them, they put forth effort to meet those needs.

The ISTJ is extremely faithful and loyal. Traditional and family-minded, they will put forth great amounts of effort at making their homes and families running smoothly. They are responsible parents, taking their parenting roles seriously. They are usually good and generous providers to their families. They care deeply about those close to them, although they usually are not comfortable with expressing their love. The ISTJ is likely to express their affection through actions, rather than through words.

ISTJs have an excellent ability to take any task and define it, organize it, plan it, and implement it through to completion. They are very hard workers, who do not allow obstacles to get in the way of performing their duties. They do not usually give themselves enough credit for their achievements, seeing their accomplishments simply as the natural fulfillment of their obligations.

ISTJs usually have a great sense of space and function, and artistic appreciation. Their homes are likely to be tastefully furnished and immaculately maintained. They are acutely aware of their senses, and want to be in surroundings which fit their need for structure, order, and beauty.

Under stress, ISTJs may fall into "catastrophe mode", where they see nothing but all of the possibilities of what could go wrong. They will berate themselves for things which they should have done differently, or duties which they failed to perform. They will lose their ability to see things calmly and reasonably, and will depress themselves with their visions of doom.

In general, the ISTJ has a tremendous amount of potential. Capable, logical, reasonable, and effective individuals with a deeply driven desire to promote security and peaceful living, the ISTJ has what it takes to be highly effective at achieving their chosen goals - whatever they may be.

It kind of freaks me out how well this describes me. :) If you want to take the test and find out your personality type, this is my favorite one.
http://www.41q.com/

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Lessons from the Wildflowers

A few days ago I was out on my daily walk, moping about the weather and how drab everything seems. It hasn't been all that bad, but the cold this year is really getting to me! I am very ready for spring to fully come, in all her splendor. So anyways, here I was, bemoaning the cold, when I decided to look around me. And what did I see but signs of spring and beauty everywhere! I discovered that even though the temperature might not be doing just what I want it to do, the flowers and grass seem to be handling everything okay. It brought to mind those well-known verses, Matthew 6:27-34. This version is The Message. . . although I normally use the NIV, I really liked the way it paraphrased this:

"Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them. If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don't you think he'll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving. People who don't know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don't worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met. Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes."
Lord, how often am I so focused on myself, and worrying about my own preferences (like it being too cold for my taste) that I fail to 1. notice those around me, and 2. trust in You and what You're doing in my life? What a silly thing to spend time on, complaining about the cold! Please give me that thankful, unworried spirit that glorifies You. May I direct my entire attention to You alone my Precious Jesus.




Friday, May 9, 2008

Photos. . .

Okay, although this is rather gross looking, I find it funny. This is a pile of Zeke and Isaac's hair after the last round of haircuts. Zeke hadn't cut his for a couple months because of the play we were in, and it'd been a while for Isaac too. They look very sharp and handsome with their new buzz cuts.

Way too cute!

Sigh. . . people grow up too fast! Abby is becoming such a beautiful young lady. Some days I suspect she may catch up to me anytime. . .

No more pictures!

Racing somewhere. . .

Cardinal Game

The guys went to a Cardinals' Game a few Sundays ago. . . us girls stayed home a rested up after a weekend of Prince and the Pauper performances. :) It was threatening to rain, but turned into an absolutely gorgeous day for a ball game.
Andy and 1/2 Isaac


Dad and Isaac

Zeke

Babysitting

Because of all the late baseball games Zeke and Andy have had lately, I've been doing a little more at-home babysitting than usual. The kids and I always have lots of fun. . .




Mmmm. . . Jello!



So Strong!
Not to be outdone by little sister. . .
"When is Mommy coming back?"
Eskimo Kisses before Bedtime

Sunday, May 4, 2008

My Week (in one very long paragraph)

Well it sure has been a busy week. The weekend was lots of fun. . . an English Country Line Dance on Saturday evening, sleepover at Ashley's that night, church at RBC on Sunday morning (I was an adopted Riefer for the day), hanging out with the youth group during the business meeting, and a bonfire that evening. Maggie Hemingway was visiting from Costa Rica for a few days, and we had fun with her. But Sunday night I made a. . . not so wise choice. . . and ended up sick Monday morning. I had to babysit most of that day, because Andy and Zeke both had baseball games. I was pretty exhausted when evening rolled around. Well by Tuesday morning, Abby and I were both feeling pretty miserable, so Mum dragged us into the doctor, and we were both diagnosed with strep. I got home, took my pill, went promptly to bed, and slept for 8 hours, from 10am -6pm. Needless to say, I felt a whole lot better the next day, better enough to go to youth. . . which I was very thankful for, since it was our last official week. Then Thursday, Dad's cousin and his family came into town on their way home from Texas, and spent the night and next morning with us. That was fun. . . they have four kids, so it was go, go, go the whole time! Andy's baseball game Friday night was cancelled, so we had the Nisbett family over for dinner. I am still sore from playing kickball, wiffle ball, and capture the flag all evening! Those boys sure kept me on the run. . . . it was so much fun though. :) But, Mum wasn't feeling the greatest that night so I told her to sleep in, and I set my alarm for 8. . . on a Saturday morning. . . Saturday was spent doing various projects around the house, and making meals for everyone going to and from baseball and soccer games. Then we crashed and watched The Pursuit of Happyness that night. And here we are, a relaxing Sunday afternoon, with no plans except watching Monk at 7. :) This is one of those days that I am so thankful God instituted the Sabbath rest. lol.
Here are a few pictures taken recently. . . Thanks Kelsey for sending me the first three!
Kelsey and Maggie
Me. . . wearing sunglasses. . .

Ashley and Me, with our post-sleepover smiles

Some lovely flowers in our backyard